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May 17th, 2012

good-bye dc’s legendary godfather of go-go chuck brown

the city weeps.

chuck brown is gone.

it’s unbelievable. to see that man perform (even in his 70s) you really believed that he would forever be up on that stage crankin’ and making the crowd move. but so it goes, yesterday the dc area mourned the loss of our beloved godfather of go-go.

yes, we all cried and we were all very saddened by the news of his passing yesterday, but we also pulled out our chuck cds and tapes and pumped up the radio stations that played chuck nonstop and did what he would’ve wanted…we jammed.

we tweeted, facebook’d, called our friends, talked about the shows and the last times we saw chuck, we talked about meeting him in person and what chuck songs reminded us of a specific time. some were able to go to soul factory for a vigil, some made it over to howard theatre to pray and celebrate his life, we all just needed to be around or talk to folks about our loss because chuck brown was really like family.

if you’ve ever been to a chuck brown then you know what i mean. i’m talking about people getting together to have a good time, bodies moving non-stop, sweating, dancing, groovin’, shoutin’ out the lyrics to every joint. to see chuck brown perform live was an experience. its a shame that his popularity never soared outside the washington, dc area, but you know, i think it’s okay for us who truly loved him and his music. he was ours.

i was dancing to “bustin’ loose” back in the ’70s before i even really knew who chuck brown was. as a matter of fact, my mother just mentioned that one day she came to pick me up from school at satellite americana on good hope rd. in s.e. and my teacher was showing us how to do the rock while “bustin’ loose” played. and that’s how it goes for chuck brown fans, they pass down the love for chuck to the next generation.

 

 

growing up my two best friends, shawn and michele, and i would sit on michele’s front steps with her brother’s boombox and blast music during the summer. in fact, i’m pretty sure “moody’s mood for love” was playing in the background when i was about 12 and had my first (and very sloppy) kiss with a kid named brian who lived down the block. whenever i hear that song it takes me back to those steps, the good times we had talking smack about boyfriends and blasting chuck on the radio.

by the time “we need some money” came out in the early ’80s i was a full blown fan. please, who in dc at that time wasn’t singing…mastercard, visa, american express. i ain’t got nothin’ against no credit cards, but the cash is the best? and you had to have a “run joe” t-shirt with mickey and minnie mouse on it. me and my friends hopped on the train to go downtown and buy ours off the vendor stands and when i couldn’t wear those shirts anymore (because the things were worn out) i hung them on my wall.

 

 

it wasn’t until years later that i was finally able to meet chuck. i worked as the associate editor of sister 2 sister magazine for close to ten years and throughout that time i met and interviewed a ton of celebrities. from jay-z to beyonce and destiny’s child, queen latifah and luther vandross. just a bunch of folks. but the day i met chuck brown at the black family reunion? oh, i was siced!! ummmm…hello, this is chuck. brown. if you’re not from this area then i’m sure you don’t get it, but his music had been the soundtrack to my life. meeting him and having the chance to tell him how much i loved his music meant a lot to me and it’s something i’ll always treasure.

i’ve seen chuck perform so many times…outdoor festivals in dc, at p.g. community college back in the day, at go-go live in ’87, cabarets, clubs…and i’m thankful that i had the opportunity to see him twice last year. my fam, kindred the family soul, recorded a song with chuck brown and dj kool called “going to the go-go” and they did a few shows with him here in dc.

 

 

can i just say how hype i was when i first talked to aja (a dc native by the way) about the song?! oh my goodness, we were so excited that chuck was on the album. when kindred had a performance with the godfather at ibiza for their daydream party last april me, my mama, and friends were all at the front jammin’. chuck was on point as always and the crowd was in full mode. we were all sweating, tired and had sore feet by the time the night was over. and it’s not just seeing him live that gets people in this area excited. you can best believe that nothing gets people more hype in a club, cabaret, cookout, basement house party…than putting on chuck brown.

 

 

my husband and i went to see kindred and chuck again on our anniversary and aja’s birthday on september 25, 2011 at the birchmere in virginia. when we were walking towards the venue my husband said, “there’s chuck right there,” pointing to chuck sitting in his car. me, being the pressed chuck brown fan i am (haha!!) was all loud and excited and waving, “heyyyyy, chuck!!” he just smiled back and said hi. there’s no doubt that he was used to getting that kind of love whenever he traveled through dc, maryland and virginia. and trust, nobody else in dc is getting that kind of love from folks. nobody.

my husband recorded some of the show from that night at the birchmere:

 

 

i always expected that chuck brown would perform until he just couldn’t anymore and that’s exactly what happened. go-go was in his blood and the music was so much of who he was that i think we all started to get worried when he recently had to cancel shows. chuck brown cancelling? it’s just not something that happens. we all prayed for him to get better.

it’s kind of crazy that one of the most popular chants that we alwaysssssss said chuck shows is chuck baby don’t give a f-ck!! it’s crazy because it’s just the opposite of everything i’ve read about this man and who truly was as a person. he had a deep love for people. so in response to our chant he always said, that ain’t true…i love all of you.

i truly believe he did, but i really think we all loved him just a little bit more.

February 3rd, 2012

kindred the family soul :: if i

it’s so hard to decide on just one love song from kindred the family soul to post because they have sooooo many awesome songs to choose from! “if i” is an old favorite of mine from their surrender to love cd.

“i’m a drunken fiend for the smell of you/if you go away what would I do…” woooooo!!! that’s love, y’all! yet another fave. a long song a day till valentine’s day!

 

January 19th, 2012

contemplating pork n’ beans

remember when i posted about having a crappy 2011? well, part of the crapaliciousness of 2011 was due to being laid off. it’s okay. really, it is. i kinda saw it coming. not that that means i knew how to feel about it when the hammer actually came down though, you know?

i’ve never been laid off before and let me tell you i went through a full range of emotions in the very beginning. the first one being a freak out emotion (if you can call it that)…”how am i going to pay my bills??” “oh my goodness, Christmas is coming. i’m going to be so so broke!!” “my unemployment check is how much? no, that can’t be right, you’re joking right? oh, you’re not joking…”

but i got over it. my faith in the Lord is strong so i got myself together and came to the realization that it’s time to pick up it on up and move on.

that’s more of the idealized version of what actually takes place. you know, “pick it on up and move on.” what is being laid off really like on a day-to-day? well, there’s the dropping the child off to school and walking po’ charlie (i promise to post a pic of him soon). then there’s this huge block of time in the middle of the day until i have to walk po’ charlie again and pick the child back up. i’ve managed to fill up those hours doing all sorts of things: job searching and more job searching, washing dishes, washing clothes, talking on the phone, folding clothes, blogging, cleaning the bathroom, dusting, talking on the phone, painting picture frames, googling tutorials on a variety of topics, talking on the phone, making jewelry, dancing to videos on vh1 soul… you know, that kinda thing.

i really should be spending mucho grande time in the gym, but that’s another subject.

then there are times when i am slam bored! you hear me? times when i just sit around and contemplate things. what kind of job should i be looking for? should i stay in social media and web management or do something totally different like become one of those sign turners because, i mean, every business needs a sign turner, right? oh, decisions, decisions!

and then there are the times that i get way inside my head like this one particular recent day: after preparing some pork n’ beans and hot dogs for a little late lunch—not because we’re so terribly broke over here, but because dangit i actually like pork n’ beans and hot dogs—when i wondered, exactly what kind of beans are in pork n’ beans?!?!

i bet you don’t know either.

i decided to google the mysterious bean and here are ten facts gathered from wikipedia about pork n’ beans that i just know you are dying to know.

here goes…

  • pork n’ beans generally consists of navy beans stewed with pork
  • commercially canned pork n’ beans were introduced in the united states during the 1880s
  • a recipe for pork n’ beans was included in the 1832 cookbook the american frugal housewife
  • according to the 1975 better homes and garden heritage cookbook, canned pork n’ beans was the first convenience food
  • pork n’ beans is a stereotypical cowboy food dish
  • pork n’ beans is an american canned classic
  • the dish became popular when h. j. heinz came out with their version in 1895
  • pork n’ beans are usually stewed with tomatoes
  • the dish was mentioned in the song “the old chisholm trail”: “oh, it’s bacon and beans most every day/i’d as soon be a-eatin’ prairie hay”
  • but what wikipedia failed to mention is that pork n’ beans were also mentioned in the hugely popular go-go song “sardines” by the one and only junkyard band. dc stand up!!!!! like to hear it? here it go…

 

and there you have it, all the pork n’ beans facts you’ll ever need in life.

January 14th, 2012

she’s so curly

my hair has been super curly forever. unless you count the times when it was pressed, permed, flat ironed or wrapped till it was bone straight, but the straightness never lasts long. i’m talking a week tops because as soon as it gets wet it’s curling some kinda way. but don’t get it twisted, i’m not a part of the natural revolution. i’ve had this hair all my life so i’m not going to start singing its natural praises now. i’m in more of the whatever-works-for-you camp. if it’s a weave/wig/perm/afro/twists/blow out/mohawk/locs/bald… whatever. do you!

i’ve been growing my hair out for several months now and i really don’t have an idea of what i want it to look like ultimately, but i’m lovin’ these pics of girls and their curls that i’ve been collecting on pinterest.

 

 

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January 6th, 2012

about this here blog…

so it’s a new year (yippeeeeee!!) and it’s time to be honest and upfront about things.

this blog is a mess.

when i first started off, mama’s got moxie was all about my son dutch. then i got a little caught up in the mom blogging circle and somehow landed on nablopomo. if you’re not familiar, nablopomo requires that you blog every day for a month. well, after a while i started blogging about all types of craziness just to keep up. i blogged about turducken and crazy christmas gifts. it got a little stupid, i can’t lie. and since those posts were so absolutely stupid i’ve since deleted them.

then i blogged about cool magazines i had discovered, things to do with your children around the dc area and other events, and the adventures in wacky jobs i had taken after dutch was born. and yep, you guessed it, deleted those too.

at one time i had a “if i were a rich girl” category where i blogged about fabulous clothing and shoes, and i decided to kinda reintroduce that last year by posting pictures of all kinds of beautiful things. i also started interviewing a bunch of my amazingly creative friends and featuring other women i admire. i figured with my editorial past and interviewing history it would be a good and interesting route to take, but that whole idea didn’t really pan out the way i had envisioned. i’ve done photography challenges and started a “things you should think about before you jump the broom” series that has a whole two entries. yep, at least two things you should think about!

the point is, this blog has been all over the place, and it’s mostly because i was trying to blog about things that i thought would interest other people when really i should’ve stuck with what interested me. somehow i fell into a pressure trap thinking i had to do a certain thing at a certain time and it was just all in my head. i even thought for a split second once about doing the whole “tuesday is book day,” “join me wednesday for shoe day!,” “looky here it’s friday…you know what that means…photography day!”

but that ain’t me.

so from now on if i decide to post a picture it’ll be because i like it, not because i’ve been challenged to do so or because it’s picture day. and if i share a magazine that’s cool  or a hot pair of shoes it’ll be just because i think it’s fly and not because i feel the need to fill up a particular category on a weekly basis.

it’s great to have a focus and to create posts in a scheduled manner to keep folks coming back, you know, if that’s your thing. but i’ve realized after four and a half years of blogging that that ain’t the thing for me. i’ll admit to being random. my interests are all over the place so i can’t say that this blog has a true focus. it’s more of a simple representation of me and what i’m diggin’ at the moment.

and yeah, i may not have trove of folks flocking to my blog on a daily basis to see what i’m talking about, but really, so what? i started off blogging as a creative outlet. a way to continue writing after leaving my journalism career and i should’ve stuck to that. but dangit if i didn’t allow myself to get all caught up.

but not anymore.

January 5th, 2012

2011 was the year of chevron, please leave it there.

Source: flickr.com via Erica on Pinterest

 

in 2011 (i know, i know, it was just days ago…) chevron was absolutely everyfreakinwhere. and personally, i’m just sick and tired of seeing it.

the zig zag print has been shown on everything imaginable: clothing, walls, shoes, shower curtains, dinnerware (although these plates are rather cute), furniture… i mean, really, it’s just become too much. it’s taking over birthday invitations, nurseries, bedding, jewelry. it has even seeped onto blog and website backgrounds and banners!! and i bet any amount of money that some fool out there got a daggone chevron tat in 2011. i just know they did.

i can’t remember the last time one simple pattern just took over our society. it’s insanity. please make it stop. kill the chevron.

i guess it could be worse. can you just imagine a paisley obsession?

oh goodness…

January 4th, 2012

{3} is your communication on point?

if you’ve been following me here at all, you know i started a little “things you should know before jumpin’ the broom” series and well, finally, here’s #3.

so you’ve heard it a million times: communication is key in a relationship, and in a marriage, communication is paramount. if you don’t have it now, trust me, your relationship will suffer a slow, pitiful death. or maybe even a quick death depending on just how bad the non-communication is.

unless you and your man learn now how to communicate effectively through counseling or some type of osmosis you’re going to have big time marital problems in the future.

there are lots of talks to be had in a marriage like managing bills, how to discipline the children, when to purchase a new car, what insurance to go with, where to live… you get my drift. but there’s the small stuff too like, which way the toilet paper should hang and who’s going to walk the dog. if you’re fussing and fighting over the little things now, just imagine how difficult it will be to discuss the things that really matter.

how you communicate, just another thing to think about before jumping the broom!

January 2nd, 2012

she makes stuff

i’ve always enjoyed creating things and i’ve collected quite a few supplies over the years. so when i found myself just a wee bit broke this past christmas i decided to pull out my box ‘o junk, put on my lil’ thinkin’ cap and get busy.

in the past i’ve done paintings, made handmade books and soaps as gifts. for dutch’s first christmas i even had the crazy idea of baking everyone in my family a dozen cookies and smacked “dutch’s dozen” labels on them. can i just say i didn’t want to see another chocolate chip cookie for a long while after that little baking adventure?

with my funds on the super low this year and since i already had a bunch of beads, wire and other findings i decided the theme for the year would be jewelry. and i made lots.

this here is just a small sampling of my supplies and things i made.

December 31st, 2011

is 2011 over yet??

see my face in this picture?

pretty pitiful, huh? let me tell you, 2011 whipped up on a sista. i mean, it beat me down, chewed me up and turned me out, and this here girlie was downright miserable at times (as you can clearly see). 2011 had major disappointments for me at every daggone turn, and yet at the same time i had some very eye opening experiences.

i’ve learned lessons this year that have been invaluable. one being, when a person reveals who they truly are, believe them. that thought is very similar to the maya angleou quote and unfortunately i have had to learn the hard way exactly what she meant by the statement.

but enough of that. see the picture below?

that’s me telling myself, “niki… girl, please. you know you need to stop trippin’ because you are far too blessed to let some mess—any mess—get you down. the Lord has had your back many a day, every day, in fact, so get it together and continue to put your faith in Him.” i’ve never been the “woe is me” type and i sure as heck can’t dwell on negativity even when it surrounds me.

nope, i’m not having it!

so while a lot of things didn’t go my way in 2011, i have countless things to be thankful for. the Lord has blessed me immeasurably even in situations that seemed so screwed up, and i give Him all the glory, honor and praise for it.

My soul finds rest in God alone; my salvation comes from him. He alone is my rock and my salvation; he is my fortress, I will never be shaken. (Psalm 62:1-2)

with that in mind, 2011 can kick rocks. i’m ready for a new year busting with new possibilities.

i wish the same for you.

happy new year!!

niki

 

October 31st, 2011

{2} is he your personal style critic?

via Stasea Noelle on Pinterest

he’s with you, so he must dig your style, right? hmmmm…maybe.

at the core of it all, my style is generally the same, but you know how it is, we dress for our moods, where we’re going, who we’re seeing. what we wear to visit grandma isn’t always the same thing we wear to have drinks at happy hour with the girls.

and maybe, just maybe, the man prefers the visit to grandma’s look better.

does ever your man ever make subtle comments about what you wear? maybe that skirt’s a little too short for his taste and he suggests a longer one, the shirt’s cut a little too low and he’s throwing a turtleneck your way…in the summer. jeans are a little too tight and he’s making comments about how he doesn’t want other dudes looking at his [insert his favorite butt term here ].

well, you can best believe if he’s got you running into the closet to find something that’s more suitable to his taste now, once you’ve gone from girlfriend to wife, it’s gonna get deeper.

but maybe it’s not even about the length of your skirt or that the twins are peeking out too much. maybe your hair is natural and he’d like to see you a little more…smoothed out. or vice versa. maybe he’d like for you to give up the weave and get twists.

maybe you like hitting up thrift stores and vintage shops more these days, but he’s not gettin’ it and has a totally different idea of how he’d like you to look. you know, a little less solange and a lot more beyonce.

so if he’s all up in your style now, that’s just another thing to think about before jumpin’ the broom!

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